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Our Story

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Kandace and Gregory's extraordinary journey began when they crossed paths as children in Sunday school. Little did they know that their innocent encounter would blossom into a lifelong partnership filled with love, creativity, and exploration. Their unique bond would stand the test of time, enduring for over four and a half decades. 

This dynamic couple who have been together for over 45 years and happily married for the last forty-two, have left an indelible mark on the film industry with their exceptional talents and creative vision. Throughout their illustrious careers in the film business, they have garnered numerous prestigious awards, recognizing their remarkable contributions to the art form.

While their professional accomplishments alone would be noteworthy, Kandace and Gregory's story extends beyond their cinematic successes. More than two decades ago, driven by a shared desire for greater variety and excitement in their lives, they made the bold decision to open up their marriage. This unconventional step was met with support and encouragement from their close friends, and it proved to be a transformative experience for both of them.

Motivated by the personal growth and self-discovery that accompanied their exploration of the swinger lifestyle, Kandace and Gregory felt compelled to share their unique journey with the world. Thus, they embarked on a captivating project that culminated in their ground-breaking tell-all book, "F*cking Our Way to Enlightenment." In this candid and thought-provoking work, they fearlessly delve into their experiences, addressing not only the sexual aspects but also the emotional and spiritual dimensions of their relationship.

Unbeknownst to them, their literary endeavor would uncover a deeply buried past of sexual trauma, leading them on a profound path of healing and self-realization. Kandace and Gregory's resilience and willingness to confront their past allowed them to forge a stronger connection with each other and themselves. Their exploration of sexuality, spirituality, and the intricacies of the swinger lifestyle became a transformative catalyst for growth, both individually and as a couple.

Since "F*cking Our Way to Enlightenment" (now titled "Creating a Happy Ever After through Non-Monogamy"), the Evolutionary Sex series has expanded with a new book on Healthy Threesomes. Kandace and Gregory continue to captivate audiences with their raw honesty and unwavering authenticity. They have become sought-after experts in the field, fostering discussions on sexual liberation, emotional intimacy, and personal development. Driven by their passion for enlightening and empowering others, they are committed to writing future titles on sexuality, spirituality, and the swinger lifestyle, all contributing to a more open, compassionate, and inclusive society.

Kandace and Gregory's remarkable journey stands as a testament to the power of love, self-exploration, and the willingness to embrace unconventional paths. Their lives and work serve as an inspiration to all those who seek to challenge societal norms and embark on a transformative voyage of self-discovery.

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Helen F.

The book is a real page turner, vibrant with inspiring facts, stories, information and insights. It takes a lot of guts to speak on this usually very private topic. 

Good for you, and good for us the readers too!

 

Keep on this juicy journey.

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Sandy S.

Wow, what a book! Very captivating and interesting to hear about your journey. The book took me into your story and I wanted to be part of the experience. Very well done !!!!

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James B

This could be turned into a guide for both newbies and experienced open relationships - wow! I found this book to be an easy page turner that drew me into the journey that this couple has experienced.

Hot, compelling, heartfelt and sincere - this book is now one of my favorites!

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