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Our Services

Plant medicines including Psilocybin and MDMA

We work as a team to provide a balanced approach from the masculine and feminine perspectives. We have over 23 years of real-world experience to share. We are judgement-free, compassionate, and fully supportive of people of all gender identities, sexual orientations, and relationship styles.


About our Services

Plant Medicine

Who are we?

Kandace and Gregory are open relationship mentors and relationship coaches. We believe and have proven that non-monogamy can create lasting relationships with your spouse /partner.


How do we know?

We have been married for over 40 years and have been in an open relationship for the past 23 years. We are the authors of ‘Fucking Our Way to Enlightenment’ which is our guide to the Swinger/Lifestyle world and journey to divine sexuality.


How does it work?

It comes down to our communication skills, which include vulnerability and honesty. We offer bespoke sessions for couples or singles of any gender identity. Remote and in-person sessions are available.


What do we teach?

During your one-on-one sessions, we offer a judgement-free discussion and answer all your concerns when it comes to having an open and honest relationship with your partner. We teach, and encourage, the Karezza, Tantric and Taoist  methods of sexuality. You will feel comfortable and safe. All of our services are customized to your needs.

What makes us unique?

 Our real-life experience in the swinger community

• We will co-host your sessions to provide a balanced approach by bringing both feminine and masculine dynamics to the discussion. 

You will gain valuable insights that will help you grow and maintain a healthy monogamous or open relationship. You will learn how to connect, be playful, fill your desires, and increase your sexual pleasure. 


How do you begin?

Sign up for our FREE - no obligation- Introductory session. Kandace and Gregory will provide a 20-minute mini-mentor introduction session for free. It is like a mini-coaching period and its FREE of charge. Either by phone, FaceTime or Skype.

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Book your Mentor and coaching sessions:

60 minutes - $100 - Mentor Intro Session

4 Sessions Package - (60 min each) $350

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Rediscover Love and Intimacy:

Transformative Plant Medicine Facilitation Services

In our fast-paced and often disconnected world, nurturing and deepening the bonds of love and intimacy in relationships can sometimes feel like an uphill battle. However, at EvolutionarySex, we have developed a truly unique approach to plant medicine ceremonies for couples and singles. With our specialized Zen Den room, aptly named "The Church of Unreasonable Happiness," we provide a safe and personal space where partners can embark on a profound journey together. By combining plant medicine with neo-tantra/neo-karezza practices, we guide couples toward reassembling the neurons in their brains, creating a deeper sense of connection and an awareness of love that transcends the ordinary. Let's delve into the transformative offerings of our plant medicine facilitation services.

The Importance of Couples' Interaction:

At EvolutionarySex, we believe that true transformation occurs when couples actively participate in their plant medicine ceremonies together. By sharing this experience, partners engage in a profound exploration of themselves and their relationship. During the journey, the neurons in their brains undergo a reassembly process, creating the potential for a more profound bond. Our experienced facilitators guide couples in using touch and communication to foster love, sensuality, and deeper connection. It is through this intimate interaction that couples can rediscover each other and embark on a journey towards their own "unreasonable happiness."

Unleashing Sensuality and Creating Awareness:

Our facilitators utilize special tantric and karezza methods and practices to help couples unleash their sensuality and create a heightened state of awareness during the plant medicine journey. Through guided exercises, partners can experience mind and energy orgasms that surpass any previous encounters, and you don’t need to sexually penetrate. This powerful process enlightens lives and fills hearts with intense pleasure and happiness. By opening their hearts and embracing passion for one another, couples can rekindle the honeymoon feeling and embark on a transformative journey together.

The Sensual Plant Medicine Experience:

At EvolutionarySex, we offer a comprehensive range of services to ensure a transformative and safe plant medicine experience:

  1. Day-long Guided Journey: An exclusive journey tailored specifically for you and your partner.

  2. Personal Facilitator Time: One-on-one time with a facilitator on the day of your journey, providing guidance and support.

  3. Pre-Ceremony Preparation: A week prior to the ceremony, you will receive a series of questions and a dieta (a specialized diet) to prepare your mind, body, and spirit.

  4. Tools for Navigating the Experience: We provide tools and techniques to navigate your unique and extraordinary journey.

  5. Question and Answer Period: A dedicated session before the journey to address any questions or concerns.

  6. Plant Medicine and Hapae (optional): We provide the plant medicine required for the ceremony, along with the option of incorporating Hapae, a sacred medicinal plant blend.

  7. Sacred and Safe Space: Our Zen Den room is a spiritual space with carefully curated music to enhance your transformative experience. Consent on all levels will be discussed and acknowledged before any medicines are consumed. Boundaries are always respected.

  8. Guided Tantric Exercises: During the plant medicine journey, our facilitators will guide you through tantric exercises to deepen your connection and awareness with yourself and your partner if applicable..

  9. Integration Time and Snacks: After the ceremony, we provide snacks and dedicated integration time to ease the transition back into daily life.

  10. Aftercare Exercises: We offer post-ceremony exercises to help you maintain and continue your growth toward complete awareness of tantric love for yourself and your partner(s).

Experience and Expertise:

At EvolutionarySex, our facilitators are not only experienced plant medicine guides but also authors and relationship coaches. With over 40 years of marriage, including a significant portion practicing nonmonogamy, we bring a unique and enlightened perspective to understanding and transforming relationships. Our understanding of intimate connection has made us pioneers in what we call the ‘Neo Karezza method’, enabling us to facilitate transformative experiences for couples seeking deeper love, intimacy, and personal growth. We believe these are intertwined and essential for a fulfilling relationship. Our plant medicine facilitation services provide a safe and sacred space for couples and singles to embark on a transformative journey towards deeper connection and happiness. Through a combination of plant medicine, tantric practices, and our expert guidance, we empower individuals and couples to rediscover love, unleash sensuality, and create an awareness that surpasses the ordinary. Rekindle the passion in your relationship and start your journey toward an enlightened and ecstatic love that transcends boundaries.

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