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The Secret Currency of Lasting Passion
Here’s the truth: passion doesn’t disappear because time passes. Passion fades when we stop paying attention to the little things. That’s...
Gregory Loewen
Aug 262 min read


Befriending Jealousy: Navigating Threesomes Without Losing Your Heart (or Mind)
I have heard people say, “If you’re feeling jealous, you’re doing non-monogamy wrong. ”But let’s be honest, that kind of thinking doesn’t...
Gregory Loewen
Jun 253 min read


You Can’t Heal in Hiding: How Shame Blocks Intimacy
Shame is a quiet saboteur. It doesn’t scream, It whispers . “Don’t say that.” “Don’t want that.” “Don’t be too much.” And so we shrink....
Gregory Loewen
May 242 min read


Let’s Talk About the Sex You’re Not Having
No one likes to talk about this part. The dry spells. The slow fade. The nights when passion turns into polite pecks and scrolling...
Gregory Loewen
May 212 min read


Conscious Pleasure: The Art of Slowing Down and Waking Up
In a culture hooked on the quick fix—swipe right, get off, move on—we’ve forgotten the magic of going slow. But real intimacy isn’t found...
Gregory Loewen
May 181 min read


The Lies We Tell in Love
Why Monogamy Often Rewards Silence Over Truth Let’s talk about a strange truth: in many traditional monogamous relationships, lying—or at...
Gregory Loewen
May 162 min read


Self-Knowledge and Self-Soothing: The Unsung Power Couple of Relationships
You’ve probably heard people say, “You can’t love someone else until you love yourself.” It’s become one of those overused phrases that...
Gregory Loewen
Dec 23, 20243 min read


A Secret to Loving Communication: The Power of the Heart Emoji (and Its Hand Signal Cousin)
Ah, communication in relationships. It’s that magical ingredient that keeps love alive, or at the very least, prevents arguments over...
Gregory Loewen
Aug 29, 20242 min read


Navigating the Evolution of Sex in Relationships
Sexual dynamics between couples often shift as their relationships evolve due to several factors. As couples grow closer emotionally,...
Gregory Loewen
Aug 5, 20243 min read


Embracing Self-Love: The Power of a Sologamy Ceremony
Love is a beautiful and complex emotion that we often associate with forming bonds with others. However, in recent years, a unique and...
Gregory Loewen
Aug 9, 20234 min read


What are karezza, tantra and taoist sexuality methods?
Karezza, Tantra, and Taoist sexuality are three different approaches to sexual practice and relationships that we embrace. While they...
Gregory Loewen
Jun 30, 20233 min read


Embracing Authenticity: The Power of Healing and Genuine Connections
In a world that often values conformity and masks, discovering the power of healing has taught me invaluable lessons about the importance...
Gregory Loewen
Jun 29, 20232 min read


Exploring the Role of Cannabis and Psilocybin in Enhancing Intimacy and Sexual Encounters
In recent years, there has been a growing interest in the potential benefits of plant medicines like cannabis and psilocybin for various...
Gregory Loewen
Jun 12, 20233 min read


Catch us on The Speak Seductively Podcast
Listen in as we join Kyle and Lilly on their Speak Seductively Podcast. https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kyle-canon/episodes/Kanda...
Gregory Loewen
May 24, 20231 min read


Catch us on the Tripsetting Podcast
Check out the Tripsetting Podcast. We joined Cam Leids as his guests and had a great discussion about sex, psychedelics and pleasure....
Gregory Loewen
May 14, 20231 min read


We found a way to build a better relationship
In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Between work, family, and social...
Gregory Loewen
May 14, 20233 min read
We call it Neo-Karezza
During the Covid lockdowns of 2020 Kandace and I took the opportunity to turn inwards, focusing on ourselves and our connection. We would...
Gregory Loewen
Apr 17, 20233 min read


We aren't so anonymous on the Strictly Anonymous Podcast
Our podcast virginity was taken by Kathi Kay on her podcast this week. It was a great experience as she kept the questions coming and the...
Gregory Loewen
Apr 12, 20231 min read


Introducing Evolutionary Sex
This is exciting... the first blog post. We are Kandace and Gregory (aka Maggie and Josh) and are excited to present the story of our...
Gregory Loewen
Dec 11, 20222 min read
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